Never Forgotten

Sometimes it’s hard not to compare myself to others. It’s impossible not to notice someone else getting something I’ve wanted or worked for. It’s envy, and it can be even harder when that someone doesn’t believe in God or has accomplished something by using less then honest means. In those moments, it is tempting to look at their accomplishments and feel unprotected or dropped by God. They didn't do it his way yet they seemingly prosper. It’s hard not to entertain the idea of making my own short cuts. I call this my “other son” moment. It’s the story of the prodigal son’s brother, the one who stayed behind and did all he was supposed to do but then felt shafted when the brother came back. When I lose perspective of what my motivation in life is and focus on circumstances or accomplishments, I can become envious and have an “other son” moment. In these moments I can feel hurt, disappointment, even anger. In these moments I need perspective.

Dear Lydia: Submission and a Financially Irresponsible Husband

Dear Lydia,

My name is Sue and I have been a disciple since August 1998. I have been married since 1993, but my husband is not a disciple. Since I was baptized, I have struggled with submission to my husband. I go from one extreme to the other. I will explain: I am the main money provider for our family. Before I became a disciple I was managing our finances. After I was baptized I tried to share everything with my husband and it was difficult for him to understand the contribution I was making to the church.